All.

Wanted to enter into her soul ... and read the whole structure of it.

Understanding everything....

And ... actually it happened .... just as he wanted.

Unfortunately ... he didn't liked many of the things he was seeing.

But ... you see .... she was a great psychologist too.

Realising what he doesn't like ... hiding that very well.

So ... it all became a game.

He tried to understand her ... but feeling he will see and dislike things ... she did the things into such a way ... that it all became ... much abstract.

Even if they were ... speaking a lot.

Even ... about any intimate thing from their past.

But .... the passing of time ... made her know very well what he liked and disliked to hear ... so she was just playing with his minds.

Making ... all little bit ... unclear.

Being ... unemotional.

And it was funny ... looking at them ... playing this psychological game.

All i could say ... was that she could really write a book ... "How to manipulate a difficult intelligent man ... so that you can have a beautiful relationship together".

One day ... having the chance to speak with him ... i've simple asked ... "How's things with her?!".

Smiling ... he replied .... "I thought she is the one.

I really thought so.

Unfortunately ... i've understood that I don't really like lots of things at her.

I've tried to change her.

But ... i've failed.

Then i've tried to explain to her the importance of that change.

Unfortunately ... i've failed again.

Then i've begged her ...

But ... again it was useless.

Today ... the only improvement is that when i go beyond her boundaries... and i start to see the signs of her dark side ... she starts acting into such a way ... that all becomes ... abstract.

Unclear.

And ... the difficult moment ... disappear.

Unfortunately ... her smile is betraying her."

"What do you mean?!"

"I also play the role of a close friend.

A very close one.

So ... i ask for example ... smiling ... I see you like how

your fried Eva is playing with the minds of that man.

And seeing her ... i realise she would like such a game too.

With me.

With other men.

But i know for sure ... she would love doing... the same."

I was listening to him ... trying to understand the boundaries defining the relationship between a man and a woman.

And ... the impact of going beyond ... those boundaries.

Cause ... there are moments in life ... when we really love our partners ... and we don't find the strength to break up ... not even when we realise that the partner has a very developed dark side ... and the impact of it on the relationship is just ... huge.

The smile of the woman of this guy ... betrayed her.

And ... he knew it.

Her dark side ... became obvious in some of the moments ... spent together.

But ... still ... he could not leave her.

Could not ... totally disconnect ... and abandon that story.

Cause ... he loved her.

So ... they continued.

And ... seeing that specific smile ... he just started to pretend ... that all is fine ... and he's not really understanding what is going on.

But ... you see .... focusing too much on analysing her ... i've forgot to ask him ... "What really is hided beyond the boundaries of your own personality?!

Do you think ... all is ok?!"

I would really love to have an honest answer from him.

Unfortunately ... being misogynist ... same as him ... we

had a clear idea into our minds .... strongly believing that all is wrong into a relationship is related only and only with the woman.

Of course ... we are ridiculous ... acting as children ... but that's a real fact about masculine psychology and philosophy ....

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